BREAK FREE |
A young man once sought the advice of a wise and extremely successful old
man. He said to the old man, “You are prosperous, popular and happy. I want to
be like you. How do I become like you?” The old man said, “You don’t want to be
like me. You want to be prosperous, popular and happy. But you can’t be all
that by being like me.” The confused young man asked, “How do you mean?” And
the old man finally said, “What you need is freedom. Before you ask me what
freedom is, take your leave, go and brood over this piece of advice; ‘WRITE
YOUR OWN PRAISES AND HISTORY WILL REMEMBER YOU.’”– from the depths of Noeses.
Almost everyone is searching for the answers; the secrets to living the
best life possible. People are looking to different places, looking up to
different people and following in the steps of ‘icons’. I think the majority of
people are doing the best that they possibly can in searching for the answers;
but I hope you haven’t missed the important point. Now, what is this important
point? Before I reveal that, please think about and answer the following
questions:
1. What do you want to be in life?
2. What will you do if you didn’t have to work for money?
Have you answered the questions to your satisfaction? If you haven’t,
chances are that you have never really thought about it. If you have, chances
are that you were very mature and ‘realistic’ about it. This means that your
awareness and consciousness might have played an important role. You might have
considered some factors like available jobs, the well-paying jobs, prestige,
your responsibilities, your culture and what have you. I will say that you
considered the system otherwise known as the current reality. Is there anything
wrong with considering all that? Maybe. Do you know why? Right from the first
day of your physical life experience, your parents started planting thoughts
into your little mind; thoughts about how the world is, about what you can be,
about the values and principles that you should hold about life etc... Those
thoughts shaped your perspective about life. One very plausible possibility is
that your wings of creativity and wild and free thinking were replaced with the
status quo during that socialization process. Your true and inner self was probably tamed. And that’s why your answer to the
two questions might not be a true reflection.
Now, back to our question; what is this important point? It’s a simple
one and that is, “the happy man is a free man”. Anyone who has found true
progress is doing what he or she loves to do, or loves what he or she is doing.
The happy man looks forward to everyday with new expectations. I’m pretty sure
if you had your way you would sit your ass on a chair and write all day. Maybe
you want to go to space and spend some years. Maybe you just want to make
people laugh. Maybe what you really want to do is design special door locks.
Maybe you just want to be a social worker. It goes on and on. You are the only
one who knows what your soul finds peace doing. Are you doing that right now?
When are you going to start doing it?
Following your heart; exercising the freedom to live your best life possible might make you
feel different and marginalized. Do you remember that weird guy you met? That
guy who would rather not comb his hair; that guy who asks a lot of strange
questions; that guy who is not fond of the rules; that guy that despite all
that you will admit has something special? That’s how the step to freedom is;
it’s a bold one that’s taken by a few people. Don’t be afraid they will forget
you. If only you will be bold enough to write your own praises history will
remember you. Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg dropped out of college to start
and build very successful businesses. Steve Jobs dropped out of college when he
didn’t know what he wanted to do in life and went on to build Apple by doing
all the unconventional things you could possibly think of. Jeff Bezos took to
the internet to sell books. Once upon a time, they said humans couldn’t fly.
The wright brothers proved that wrong by inventing the airplane. Once upon a
time they said it wasn’t possible to separate Siamese twins. Dr. Benjamin
Carson defied all medical principles to make that possible. So you see, there
are no definite rules. The current rules were made by people who were no
smarter than you. You can put a dent in the universe. You can make the world
stop for you or you can suffer silently and give great pieces of advice on your
death bed.
We live in an era of speed. Almost everyone is rushing somewhere. For
some people, that somewhere is unknown. There is a lot of pressure to succeed
and earn a living. As a result, people find themselves doing work they don’t
like. According to Gallup incorporated, only 13% of employees in the world are
engaged at work. This means that the other 87% are either not engaged or
actively disengaged. And since people spend a substantial part of their lives
working, the quality of their workplace experience is inevitably reflected in
the quality of their lives. This tells you how important it is for you to
exercise your freedom when choosing a career path.
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.
Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people’s
thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner
voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is
secondary. – Steve Jobs
If you want to be happy, if you want to live your best life possible and
if you want to progress, then your greatest step is true freedom. The freedom
to do exactly what your heart desires; what will make your soul happy forever.
No one but you can give it to yourself. Claim your freedom; take it. It’s yours
and yours only. It’s time to live freely, to flow freely with your soul and
spirit. It’s time to write your own praises.
Write your own praises for life is short and you are already naked, so
there is no reason not to follow your heart.
Write your own praises for the rules you came to meet were made by
people like you.
Write your own praises for if you don’t, other people will pull in and
beat you at their own game to make you lose your nerve.
Write your own praises for the Socrates, the Platos, the Aristotles and
all the greatest discoverers did the same.
Write your own praises for that’s how more is added to life. That’s how
life is made more beautiful.
Write your own praises for in it lies your happiness, best life and
progress.
Write your own praises and write it now for the life you are living now
is no rehearsal; your time is running.
Write your own praises and history will remember you!!!!
The revelation here is simple; if you want to experience true progress,
you need to muster the courage to exercise your freedom. You need to break free
from dogma. Simply let yourself loose. Don’t hold back anything. Live each day
as if it were your last and declare always; I WILL WRITE MY OWN PRAISES AND HISTORY
WILL REMEMBER ME. Cheers!
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